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	<title>Comments on: What you can do when your blog gets hit by negative comments</title>
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		<title>By: Budget Chic</title>
		<link>http://heartifb.com/2009/05/25/negative-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-5363</link>
		<dc:creator>Budget Chic</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 14:56:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been on the net since &#039;96 so I&#039;ve seen this type of troll-like behavior time and time again, from guest books and forums back in the 90s and now on personal blogs.  This kind of negative B.S. is not going anywhere, its just how you deal with it.

In my opinion,  a lot of the comments that you young ladies deal with just stem from jealous, insecure and a lot of the time mentally imbalanced individuals with access to a keyboard and a internet connection.  Block &#039;em!  I don&#039;t approve any of thoses comments.  

On another note, I like Rumi, I think she is sweet young lady and I know where apricot.tea is coming from.  I&#039;ve followed her since her early mystylediary days as I was also posting outfits to that site around the same time.  To me Rumi is just evolving, doing different things and pursing her goals.  Obviously her blog has opened up opportunities that she is taking full advantage of - nothing wrong with that.  Wasson maybe an inspiration, but that doesn&#039;t seem to be an issue for her nor does it seem like she minds the comparison at the present moment.  Perhaps in time she will evolve even further and define her style more clearly.   If someone no longer relates to that, then they have so many other blogs to follow out here.  Lots of choices in the fashion blogging community.  On the net - people come and go.  Followers may grow tired of your blog and move on to someone else&#039;s, thats just the ways it goes.  You gain and lose readership, just the nature of the beast.  I just try to focus on keeping it positive on my blog and not let the &quot;fake ones&quot; weight me down with negative comments and distract me from my whole reason for blogging.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been on the net since &#8217;96 so I&#8217;ve seen this type of troll-like behavior time and time again, from guest books and forums back in the 90s and now on personal blogs.  This kind of negative B.S. is not going anywhere, its just how you deal with it.</p>
<p>In my opinion,  a lot of the comments that you young ladies deal with just stem from jealous, insecure and a lot of the time mentally imbalanced individuals with access to a keyboard and a internet connection.  Block &#8216;em!  I don&#8217;t approve any of thoses comments.  </p>
<p>On another note, I like Rumi, I think she is sweet young lady and I know where apricot.tea is coming from.  I&#8217;ve followed her since her early mystylediary days as I was also posting outfits to that site around the same time.  To me Rumi is just evolving, doing different things and pursing her goals.  Obviously her blog has opened up opportunities that she is taking full advantage of &#8211; nothing wrong with that.  Wasson maybe an inspiration, but that doesn&#8217;t seem to be an issue for her nor does it seem like she minds the comparison at the present moment.  Perhaps in time she will evolve even further and define her style more clearly.   If someone no longer relates to that, then they have so many other blogs to follow out here.  Lots of choices in the fashion blogging community.  On the net &#8211; people come and go.  Followers may grow tired of your blog and move on to someone else&#8217;s, thats just the ways it goes.  You gain and lose readership, just the nature of the beast.  I just try to focus on keeping it positive on my blog and not let the &#8220;fake ones&#8221; weight me down with negative comments and distract me from my whole reason for blogging.</p>
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		<title>By: Freya</title>
		<link>http://heartifb.com/2009/05/25/negative-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-2174</link>
		<dc:creator>Freya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 16:22:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Kyla: Man, that must be so creepy! That&#039;s why I&#039;m very particular about my anonymity. It&#039;s easy to think that they are just silly creeps who like to just scare us, but the mind always imagines the worst.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Kyla: Man, that must be so creepy! That&#8217;s why I&#8217;m very particular about my anonymity. It&#8217;s easy to think that they are just silly creeps who like to just scare us, but the mind always imagines the worst.</p>
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		<title>By: Jennine</title>
		<link>http://heartifb.com/2009/05/25/negative-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-2170</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 08:52:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh my goodness kyla! that is so scary! a nightmare, seriously. 

i really hope they find a way to catch these people and give them some kind of way to punish them, seriously.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh my goodness kyla! that is so scary! a nightmare, seriously. </p>
<p>i really hope they find a way to catch these people and give them some kind of way to punish them, seriously.</p>
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		<title>By: Kyla Roma</title>
		<link>http://heartifb.com/2009/05/25/negative-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-2161</link>
		<dc:creator>Kyla Roma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 21:20:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have to second the &quot;don&#039;t respond&quot; part of this - and add in a &quot;Be careful!&quot;. I had a crazed reader of my old blog sift through facebook profile pictures of girls my age in my city until he found my real name, and then found my personal portfolio site, my work - and proceeded to threaten me through all the avenues he could find, including at my job. It was terrifying &amp; really changed the way I looked at blogging.

Best feature ever: Google&#039;s Webmaster Tools. I still have my portfolio site and my old domain but I have had them removed from google. Now people can view them if I give them the URLs but they will not come up in any google searches. I know it&#039;s not the most fail safe method, but I feel 100 times better knowing that I&#039;m not so out there anymore.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kyla Roma’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/kylaroma/~3/kM2HuvtR_pM/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Putting your back into it.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to second the &#8220;don&#8217;t respond&#8221; part of this &#8211; and add in a &#8220;Be careful!&#8221;. I had a crazed reader of my old blog sift through facebook profile pictures of girls my age in my city until he found my real name, and then found my personal portfolio site, my work &#8211; and proceeded to threaten me through all the avenues he could find, including at my job. It was terrifying &amp; really changed the way I looked at blogging.</p>
<p>Best feature ever: Google&#8217;s Webmaster Tools. I still have my portfolio site and my old domain but I have had them removed from google. Now people can view them if I give them the URLs but they will not come up in any google searches. I know it&#8217;s not the most fail safe method, but I feel 100 times better knowing that I&#8217;m not so out there anymore.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Kyla Roma’s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/kylaroma/~3/kM2HuvtR_pM/" rel="nofollow">Putting your back into it.</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Freya</title>
		<link>http://heartifb.com/2009/05/25/negative-comments/comment-page-1/#comment-2140</link>
		<dc:creator>Freya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 10:57:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In my one year of blogging, I have never got negative comments. I have been moderating comments so far and also allowing Anonymous comments. I really love &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.mademoisellerobot.com/2009/04/mrtv-dealing-with-negative-comments.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Mademoiselle Robot&#039;s video&lt;/a&gt; about it. I think we all should just keep our cool and deal it in a funny way. I would recommend deleting obcene comments, and as for insulting ones which sometimes hilarious more than mean or wicked, we should just answer/insult them back in their own tone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my one year of blogging, I have never got negative comments. I have been moderating comments so far and also allowing Anonymous comments. I really love <a href="http://www.mademoisellerobot.com/2009/04/mrtv-dealing-with-negative-comments.html" rel="nofollow">Mademoiselle Robot&#8217;s video</a> about it. I think we all should just keep our cool and deal it in a funny way. I would recommend deleting obcene comments, and as for insulting ones which sometimes hilarious more than mean or wicked, we should just answer/insult them back in their own tone.</p>
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