I feel like I am less likely to judge them and more likely to appreciate what they are doing, their own style no matter what shape, size, style, color scheme, etc. It’s such a warm community when it comes to complements and egging each other on with our posts and personal style. Of course, there are people who lean towards more negative comments but I find on the best blogs everyone sort of ignores the pointless negativity and quickly moves on the the next.

To be fair, I have stopped following a few blogs because they seemed purely superficial and not genuine after I scratched the surface. some of them just weren’t my thing as far as what they were posting at the moment and, yeah, ok it feels good to clear that stuff out because you probably weren’t reading it anyway!

Of course, I am only human and am occasionally envious of how so-and-so looks in that cute dress, how great his or her hair is, how cool it is that they have “x” item or get to travel to “x” place. But it’s by no means hurting my self worth, they are helping me grow and showing me that I can do all of these things if I choose to. Maybe I am a romantic about it but why would I be involved if it wasn’t a positive experience?!
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