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	<title>Comments on: Sharing Your Secrets?</title>
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		<title>By: Laura Dahl</title>
		<link>http://heartifb.com/2009/11/16/sharing-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-5481</link>
		<dc:creator>Laura Dahl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 18:54:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I say, share away and let go of your fears.
.-= Laura Dahl&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dahlight.com/horny-frenchie-humps-a-kid/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Moonday Medicine &#124; Horny Frenchie Humps a Kid&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I say, share away and let go of your fears.<br />
.-= Laura Dahl&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.dahlight.com/horny-frenchie-humps-a-kid/" rel="nofollow">Moonday Medicine | Horny Frenchie Humps a Kid</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: WendyB</title>
		<link>http://heartifb.com/2009/11/16/sharing-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-5462</link>
		<dc:creator>WendyB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 18:39:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When it comes to my design business, I don&#039;t give away client lists or design/manufacturing tips. I only give wholesaler/manufacturer names to other designers I think are truly deserving and who are willing to help me too.

As for the blog, though, what&#039;s really secret? Layouts and widgets can easily be copies. And I just put together a huge, detailed list of &quot;online responsibilities&quot; for someone else. Someone suggested to me that that list could be considered a trade secret. I wavered over it but decided that just because it&#039;s written down (and a lot of it is common sense) doesn&#039;t mean anyone will actually be able to DO it the way I would do it. So who cares if they know it. I can afford to be charitable.
.-= WendyB&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/wendybrandes/xcOx/~3/qll4YGBZGEU/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Outfit Photo by Bill Cunningham of the New York Times&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When it comes to my design business, I don&#8217;t give away client lists or design/manufacturing tips. I only give wholesaler/manufacturer names to other designers I think are truly deserving and who are willing to help me too.</p>
<p>As for the blog, though, what&#8217;s really secret? Layouts and widgets can easily be copies. And I just put together a huge, detailed list of &#8220;online responsibilities&#8221; for someone else. Someone suggested to me that that list could be considered a trade secret. I wavered over it but decided that just because it&#8217;s written down (and a lot of it is common sense) doesn&#8217;t mean anyone will actually be able to DO it the way I would do it. So who cares if they know it. I can afford to be charitable.<br />
.-= WendyB&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/wendybrandes/xcOx/~3/qll4YGBZGEU/" rel="nofollow">Outfit Photo by Bill Cunningham of the New York Times</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Grace</title>
		<link>http://heartifb.com/2009/11/16/sharing-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-5459</link>
		<dc:creator>Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 18:11:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love what Alice said a few comments above this one: &quot;Besides, there is nothing more motivating than worthy competition&quot;.

How true.  Why wouldn&#039;t we want other bloggers to succeed?  Isn&#039;t challenge what forces us to grow?  And besides that matter, blogging is all about community.  The best way to build a community is to reach out to other bloggers, and I firmly believe that means helping out where you can.

So I try not to have secrets I keep from my readers.  Of course, as mentioned earlier, there is such a thing as integrity and we need to uphold that value when it comes to privileged information.

Love Grace.
.-= Grace&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Squarectomy/~3/yhSddNzz_kg/as-if.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;As If…&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love what Alice said a few comments above this one: &#8220;Besides, there is nothing more motivating than worthy competition&#8221;.</p>
<p>How true.  Why wouldn&#8217;t we want other bloggers to succeed?  Isn&#8217;t challenge what forces us to grow?  And besides that matter, blogging is all about community.  The best way to build a community is to reach out to other bloggers, and I firmly believe that means helping out where you can.</p>
<p>So I try not to have secrets I keep from my readers.  Of course, as mentioned earlier, there is such a thing as integrity and we need to uphold that value when it comes to privileged information.</p>
<p>Love Grace.<br />
.-= Grace&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Squarectomy/~3/yhSddNzz_kg/as-if.html" rel="nofollow">As If…</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: queenbee</title>
		<link>http://heartifb.com/2009/11/16/sharing-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-5350</link>
		<dc:creator>queenbee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 20:45:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You guys all brought up some great points! I’m glad to hear people have information they share and and others they don’t share. I was feeling bad about not sharing certain contacts and other information, but I see that even in this online opensource community, some things are kept to yourself.

Thanks for giving me the opportunity to post! :)
.-= queenbee&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://prommafia.com/2009/11/comfy-sweater-dresses/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Comfy Sweater Dresses&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You guys all brought up some great points! I’m glad to hear people have information they share and and others they don’t share. I was feeling bad about not sharing certain contacts and other information, but I see that even in this online opensource community, some things are kept to yourself.</p>
<p>Thanks for giving me the opportunity to post! <img src='http://heartifb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= queenbee&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://prommafia.com/2009/11/comfy-sweater-dresses/" rel="nofollow">Comfy Sweater Dresses</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: julia</title>
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		<dc:creator>julia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:28:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>haha thanks Jennine! I think it&#039;s the Italian in me that must equate every analogy to something Italian ;) Chocolate chip cookies is a good one too :)
.-= julia&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://fashionpulsedaily.com/2009/11/19/wardrobe-wish-list-belted-and-buckled-bootie/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Wardrobe Wish List: Belted And Buckled Bootie&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>haha thanks Jennine! I think it&#8217;s the Italian in me that must equate every analogy to something Italian <img src='http://heartifb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Chocolate chip cookies is a good one too <img src='http://heartifb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= julia&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://fashionpulsedaily.com/2009/11/19/wardrobe-wish-list-belted-and-buckled-bootie/" rel="nofollow">Wardrobe Wish List: Belted And Buckled Bootie</a> =-.</p>
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