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		<title>Comment on When to protect your contacts by WendyB</title>
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		<dc:creator>WendyB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 02:23:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post. We certainly have spent a long time talking about how to deal with this problem!

Stylefyles&#039; suggestion is good when people are asking for blogging contacts. As a jewelry designer, when people have asked me for professional contacts (manufacturers, goldsmiths, stone-setters) I&#039;ve told them bluntly that it&#039;s a trade secret. It usually comes from clients who think they&#039;re going to be able to cut out the middleman (as if they know how to build jewelry from the ground up and are going to go to 10 appointments to get one piece done) or would-be designers who haven&#039;t even started a business. I do trade professional contact info with experienced people whom I work closely with and (key point) are willing to give me info too.

You never know how people are going to use/misuse your contacts. I&#039;ve learned the hard way that it could be in surprising ways you&#039;d never anticipate. Best to be on your guard.
.-= WendyB&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/wendybrandes/xcOx/~3/Ba5sNDMfUwE/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Meet Byron Lars&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post. We certainly have spent a long time talking about how to deal with this problem!</p>
<p>Stylefyles&#8217; suggestion is good when people are asking for blogging contacts. As a jewelry designer, when people have asked me for professional contacts (manufacturers, goldsmiths, stone-setters) I&#8217;ve told them bluntly that it&#8217;s a trade secret. It usually comes from clients who think they&#8217;re going to be able to cut out the middleman (as if they know how to build jewelry from the ground up and are going to go to 10 appointments to get one piece done) or would-be designers who haven&#8217;t even started a business. I do trade professional contact info with experienced people whom I work closely with and (key point) are willing to give me info too.</p>
<p>You never know how people are going to use/misuse your contacts. I&#8217;ve learned the hard way that it could be in surprising ways you&#8217;d never anticipate. Best to be on your guard.<br />
<span class="cluv"> WendyB&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/wendybrandes/xcOx/~3/Ba5sNDMfUwE/" rel="nofollow">Meet Byron Lars</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://heartifb.com/ifb/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on When to protect your contacts by stylefyles</title>
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		<dc:creator>stylefyles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 02:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My experience in the entertainment industry has taught me to be extra persnickety about this. If I ever receive a contact info request (pretty much in any facet of life), I almost always &#039;take a message and pass it along.&#039; It takes just a second, maybe even less time, to forward an email along with a note &quot;I was uncomfortable giving out your information, but this person is trying to reach you....&quot;. If the intended party is interested, they can initiate contact. 

I know it&#039;s almost too anal, but rather than put someone else in an undesirable situation, I&#039;d rather be told I&#039;m being too overprotective rather than the other way around.
.-= stylefyles&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://stylefyles.tumblr.com/post/441850249&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;U Pick Ur Fave: February&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My experience in the entertainment industry has taught me to be extra persnickety about this. If I ever receive a contact info request (pretty much in any facet of life), I almost always &#8216;take a message and pass it along.&#8217; It takes just a second, maybe even less time, to forward an email along with a note &#8220;I was uncomfortable giving out your information, but this person is trying to reach you&#8230;.&#8221;. If the intended party is interested, they can initiate contact. </p>
<p>I know it&#8217;s almost too anal, but rather than put someone else in an undesirable situation, I&#8217;d rather be told I&#8217;m being too overprotective rather than the other way around.<br />
<span class="cluv"> stylefyles&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://stylefyles.tumblr.com/post/441850249" rel="nofollow">U Pick Ur Fave: February</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://heartifb.com/ifb/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on When to protect your contacts by Madeline Veenstra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Madeline Veenstra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This has happened to me quite a few times, being a little naive I have gone along with it thinking I&#039;m helping someone out, when in actual fact they have used me. It&#039;s a little disheartening, but now I have come to learn the hard way to double think every request from companies and other bloggers :)
.-= Madeline Veenstra&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://wikifashion.com/mediawiki/index.php?title=User:94.102.63.32&amp;diff=0&amp;oldid=prev&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;User:94.102.63.32&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This has happened to me quite a few times, being a little naive I have gone along with it thinking I&#8217;m helping someone out, when in actual fact they have used me. It&#8217;s a little disheartening, but now I have come to learn the hard way to double think every request from companies and other bloggers <img src='http://heartifb.com/ifb/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
<span class="cluv"> Madeline Veenstra&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://wikifashion.com/mediawiki/index.php?title=User:94.102.63.32&amp;diff=0&amp;oldid=prev" rel="nofollow">User:94.102.63.32</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://heartifb.com/ifb/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on When to protect your contacts by eyeliah</title>
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		<dc:creator>eyeliah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post, I remember you mentioning once before you were asked for contact info.  I would never give out other bloggers information and luckily I have not been asked to do so... yet.
.-= eyeliah&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://stylesymmetry.com/2010/03/10/fairytale-dressing/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Fairytale Dressing&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, I remember you mentioning once before you were asked for contact info.  I would never give out other bloggers information and luckily I have not been asked to do so&#8230; yet.<br />
<span class="cluv"> eyeliah&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://stylesymmetry.com/2010/03/10/fairytale-dressing/" rel="nofollow">Fairytale Dressing</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://heartifb.com/ifb/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on When to protect your contacts by Little Black Book</title>
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		<dc:creator>Little Black Book</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:35:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow thanks for such an important post! I personally haven&#039;t experienced anything like it (yet) but this will helo me if (and when) the time comes xx
.-= Little Black Book&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://littleblackbook.typepad.com/little_black_book/2010/03/little-black-book-heads-to-melbourne.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Little Black Book heads to Melbourne&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow thanks for such an important post! I personally haven&#8217;t experienced anything like it (yet) but this will helo me if (and when) the time comes xx<br />
<span class="cluv"> Little Black Book&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://littleblackbook.typepad.com/little_black_book/2010/03/little-black-book-heads-to-melbourne.html" rel="nofollow">Little Black Book heads to Melbourne</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://heartifb.com/ifb/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on When to protect your contacts by Imelda Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Imelda Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve lost count of the number of times I&#039;ve been fucked over by companies (and some bloggers) who&#039;ve hit me up for information about blogosphere...I learnt the hard way. Now it&#039;s &#039;no talk, no trouble&#039;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve lost count of the number of times I&#8217;ve been fucked over by companies (and some bloggers) who&#8217;ve hit me up for information about blogosphere&#8230;I learnt the hard way. Now it&#8217;s &#8216;no talk, no trouble&#8217;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Links à la Mode : The IFB Weekly Roundup by Franca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Franca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 19:29:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the inclusion! it&#039;s an honour!
.-= Franca&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://orangesapples.blogspot.com/2010/03/vintage-poster-inspiration-golden-age.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Vintage poster inspiration: the golden age of the British Railways&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the inclusion! it&#8217;s an honour!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Franca&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://orangesapples.blogspot.com/2010/03/vintage-poster-inspiration-golden-age.html" rel="nofollow">Vintage poster inspiration: the golden age of the British Railways</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://heartifb.com/ifb/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on What does your ideal workspace look like? by Links à la Mode: The IFB Weekly Roundup &#124; TheWorkingWardrobe.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Links à la Mode: The IFB Weekly Roundup &#124; TheWorkingWardrobe.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 16:04:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Independent Fashion Bloggers – What does your ideal workspace look like? [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on What does your ideal workspace look like? by M.I.S.S. On IFB's Links à la Mode! &#124; M.I.S.S.</title>
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		<dc:creator>M.I.S.S. On IFB's Links à la Mode! &#124; M.I.S.S.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:27:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Independent Fashion Bloggers – What does your ideal workspace look like? [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Links à la Mode : The IFB Weekly Roundup by julia</title>
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		<dc:creator>julia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:26:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>GREAT lineup this week-thanks for including me! Love the Smiles Go with Everything etsy post and Shrimp Salad Circus orange lips post -- touching on topics I&#039;ve been contemplating lately!
.-= julia&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://fashionpulsedaily.com/2010/03/11/i-love-your-style-margot-tenenbaum/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I Love Your Style: Margot Tenenbaum (CollegeCandy Guest Post)&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>GREAT lineup this week-thanks for including me! Love the Smiles Go with Everything etsy post and Shrimp Salad Circus orange lips post &#8212; touching on topics I&#8217;ve been contemplating lately!<br />
<span class="cluv"> julia&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://fashionpulsedaily.com/2010/03/11/i-love-your-style-margot-tenenbaum/" rel="nofollow">I Love Your Style: Margot Tenenbaum (CollegeCandy Guest Post)</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://heartifb.com/ifb/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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